Solarek Family

Hiking - a cold day sandwhiched between two beautiful days - go figure!

2012-02-10T11:05:00.002-05:00

So it wasnt just cold - it snowed. It was very pretty on the way up but the whole way down... was freezing! I think I am starting to warm up days later! ;)

Conor made this craft in church a few months ago. It was so precious I had to frame it! The first thing he was thankful for was papa and grandma.

Preschool with the best teacher ever - Mrs Jones

2012-02-10T10:38:00.002-05:00

Baking with Grandma

2012-02-10T10:17:00.002-05:00

FYI If Erin makes you cookies... just know that she has probably licked the knife of the icing and then used it on your cookie. She is three but still a wild child :0)

Birthday Celebrations Continued...

2012-02-10T09:51:00.001-05:00

Erin's 3rd birthday was on monday and James' 30th birthday is Saturday. It was so fun to have papa and grandma here to party with us.

Erin Grace is three years old!

2012-02-10T09:45:00.000-05:00

My baby is three years old xoxox

2012-02-10T09:35:00.000-05:00

Papa and Grandma came to suprise James and Erin for their birthday. We went to chick fil a for lunch. Then we went to Build a Bear with Addison and Skylar. We had a fun birthday celebration. Chloe Beth came over for cake and ice cream after dinner. The people at chick fil a sang to erin and she loved it but was shy at the same time. When we sang to her with her princess cake, she just laughed and giggled with glee the whole time. It was precious. She enjoyed her day and loved all the parties! :)

Under the Bridge

2012-01-11T10:44:00.000-05:00

I have seen some cool 'God' things lately. I have been blessed to hand out food to the homeless. What strikes me each time is how big and scary those men look... But the light and softeness in thier eyes when we reach out. When we say "would you like a sandwhich?". I got to pray for William and ask God to bless him with a job. I got to talk to a lady who has had two children and they have been placed for adoption, living in two different states. I got to talk to a man who fled his home because he is wanted for arrest up there and has three children that he does not see or take care of. God, show these people your love through your Word and please use me in the process.
I saw God work Tuesday morning as we passed out some food and Bible verses. That night we went back to the Rescue Mission. I sat by Davea. She moved here from South Carolina. One of her four children is in Melisa's class. Wow - God. Thank you! Melisa teaches in the inner city school to be love and a light to the children. How awesome you are to lead us to people who desparetley need you. May they be comforted by you, Jesus!
Donita gave a Bible to a man she met in the morning time. He just got out of prision in California and is going through the program at the Mission. He wants to get his GED. He was blessed by Donita's kindness and knows God is blessing him. We are blessed to be a blessing. Let us never forget that.
A man said to me "did I see you in the park on Sunday? you gave me a sandwhich". He said "please remember to pray for me". I was moved that he remembered that small act.
People around us are hurting. People around us do not know the kindness and goodness of the mighty Saviour. Please share the good news of Christ this week.
I was moved to see the activity on facebook from people in our church sunday night. God is getting a hold of hearts. Last night, I saw that a cashier recieved three tracts and an invitation to a movie being shown at our church this saturday. That is so awesome!!! We are listening to the Bible and applying what we know. Yay!
For God so loved the world that HE gave His only begotten Son. That whoever believes in Him should not perish but have EVERLASTING LIFE. John 3:16
I am blessed to Know God and His Word. If you know God and His Word, pass it on friends. Pass it on.

Erin

2012-01-07T00:06:00.000-05:00

Something that I have noticed lately is bedtime routines. The kids love for me to come into their rooms and pray with them and say goodnight. This is after daddy has already been in to them. Erin prays forever (it feels like it!) she goes on and on about everything that has happened that day. I bought her a new night light becasue her other one was way too bright. Erin does not need as much sleep as the rest of us think we need! She wakes up as happy as can be and cant wait for breakfast :) One night the power went out. None of us noticed because we were sleeping... that is until erin started to cry becasue her night light went out and she woke from her sleep knowing her room was too dark! That is how light of a sleeper she is. She hates the dark. We pray for angels to protect her while she is sleeping because she thinks monsters live in her room. She is two folks.
Her friend Ella gave her some princess clothes. Erin loves dressing up and she adored the new dresses, necklaces and purse. So - that night she refused to wear a pull up to bed. She said princess do not wear pull ups to bed. Needless to say we put one on her but at two in the morning we hear her crying. She had taken off her pullup and wet her bed. It wasnt funny at the time but it makes me smile. She really believed wearing that dress to bed would make her wake up dry. Oh Erin - we love you so much and you make us smile with all your craziness. You can spell your name now. I love how you say orange. You love baby kendra and addison coming over to play with you. You are so excited for your birthday in Feb so you can make a bear (build a bear). Every day you say 'I love you. Is it MY birthday? I hope you read this someday erin and know how very funny you were from such an early age. May you never loose your easy going, fun loving, crazy persoanlity! You are so very sweet. I love you baby girl!

Tammy Bennett - personality plus (her thoughts!)

2012-01-06T23:45:00.000-05:00

I heard this lady speak and I enjoyed hearing about the different personalities! So fun to pick out your personality and your hubby's personality :)

Sanguine - have fun
Choleric - take control (me ahem)
Phlegmatic - find peace, avoid conflict (james ahem)
Melancholy - perfection

Okay - so I was going to write my notes out for you... but you could probablly google those four words and find out which describes you the most.

Interesting. What I love is that God gave me my personality and even though I am the bossy one... I get alot done! :) There are wonderful traits to my personality and some that are on the ugly side. I can surrender the good, bad and ugly to God and He makes beauty out of ashes. Lord, thank you for my personality. Please take me and mold me into your masterpiece. Amen

Thoughts from Linda Mintle on Relationships

2012-01-06T23:31:00.000-05:00

I attended a cenference a while back and thought I would share the information I learned from Linda Mintle.

If you have a problem with a difficult person- don't cut them off. It makes you a better person to figure it out. God puts us in relationship. How i love is how i show Christ's love to others.

Here is a simple belief that creates relationship problems... we try to change others!

Year 2, 7 and 15 are tricky years in a relationship. Truth - I cannot change anyone.

Relationship dance steps:
Discuss- Avoid
Demand - Refuse
Criticize - defend (avoid)
Accuse - deny
Pursue - distance
Attach - withdraw
Attack - attack
withdraw - withdraw

We need to change your step in the dance and the relationship dance changes.

The Change Process:

Surrender.
1 peter 5:6
"humble yourselves, therefore, under God's mighty hand, that He may lift you up in due time.

Accept the need for change
psalm 139:1

Confess your behavior (couples pray together) you will be A M A Z E D what praying together can do. Please - try it... please.
james 5:16

Take responsibility
galations 6:5

Forgive (forgiveness takes one - ouch!)
matthew 6:14

Be Transformed
2 corinthians 3:18

Persevere
2 peter 1:5

No relationship is beyond repare if you are willing to reconcile. Forgiveness takes 1 - reconciliation takes 2.
Pray, Forgive, Do things together, Control your tongue (james 3) Deal with conflict and focus on the positivies.

This may be vague but the information really helped me so I wanted to write it down on here. Thanks! :)

the Solarek's Sweet Christmas 2011

2011-12-29T14:04:00.000-05:00

It has been a wonderful celebration of Christmas this year. December started off beautifully! We went to see the play "Scroodge" Dec 1st. Our friend gave us wonderful seats up front and we had a blast. By the end Erin was playing James' i phone, and Conor was saying "this was way too scary for me. You should not have brought me here" :0) All in all, it really was a great night and I loved going as a family. Dec 2 brought the lighting of the Christmas tree in down town Roanoke. I felt like I was in a cartoon when the Mayor of Roanoke told Santa his number one wish for christmas was snow... we went down town with Elijah's family (one of conor's best friends) and then we came back to our house and built ginger bread houses - What a wonderful start to the holidays! Oh - I don't remember if I mentioned on here that our christmas tree fell down in the middle of the night and scared the life out of me?! The kids didnt hear a thing and james didnt even want to go down and check what the huge crash sound was??!! My tree sat naked for two days - it was naked while we had friends over to decorate the gingerbread houses... it bugged me but not enough to stress out. If you know me and james by now - it is our motto to enjoy life and not stress out about silly things like undecorated christmas trees.
A fun thing I like to do during the sundays of Decemebr is entertain the teen girl's sunday school classes (i did make sure the tree was re decorated for them!) It is special to have them into our home and hear from each one of them about their lives.
One of our teens organized a teddy drop off - the teddys would go to children who lost everything in a house fire or natural disaster. This was a wonderful thing for us to do with our children bc they have so much. It was special to collect some of their teddys and send them to children who really need them.
We went christmas carolling a few times which is always fun to see people smile at our small gesture. Singing at the old folks home was awesome and the macdonalds on 460 :)
James and I celebrated our 6th wedding anniversary. We went to Olive Garden, came home and watched our wedding with the children. It was precious. This kids thought we were the prince and princess... We (thank you Ashley and Kathy!)painted the basement and hung a world map, map of ireland and map of america - that was our gift to one another and we are delighted with how that room turned out! When we were in mexico the leaders talked about putting maps up in your home and teaching your children there is more to life than their neighborhood!

Now to the good stuff - Christmas Eve. We went to our friend's house and baked some cookies and they made a feast for us! I love being around people so for friends to have us over on christmas eve meant so much to me. We did leave earlier than expected bc our kids were whiny and we put them straight to bed when we came home! :) Christmas Eve we went to the Baptist Community Center to watch the children perform a play for us. James, along with the youth group and Smith family go to the BCC each wednesday so it was special for James to come and watch their play. When we arrived, James did not see (i did - ahem!) a concrete ditch between the road and the curb. He popped the tire good let me tell ya! Well, being the stress free people that we strive to be (it is a decision/choice people) we went in and enjoyed the play and said we would worry about it after. For those of you who know where the BCC is located you may be smiling! The Smith family gave many hours on christmas eve to help the children prepare for the play and helped serve the food and clean up. This family is a wonderful example to me and I love their heart for God and people! Mr Smith helped James after the play and God blessed us fix the car for 15 dollars. Being at the BCC was precious. The children did a great job sharing the message of Christ. Their parents came to watch them and I pray that someone came to Christ through their efforts and the Truth they spoke of.
We ended the night at i hop with more friends who ministered over at the resuce mission. I love all of these people and I love being around like minded believers. We are blessed. We came home, put the kids to bed and prepared the dinner for the next day.

Erin woke us up Christmas morning and she got to look at the goodies in her stocking. Then she woke Conor up saying "it's christmas conor!". He came in to our room with his stocking and dumped it out to see his treasure. We came down stairs, read luke 2 and prayed to God, thanking Him for His gift to us. Conor took this seriousally because he realizes what this day is really about. We skyped my family and they got to see the kids open their gifts. Conor got a remote control dinasour from our neighbor. Her boys were finished playing with it and she thought of us. How sweet of her! That was conor's favorite gift! They each got a new Bible, dress up clothes and a pillow pet. They had a lot of fun!
We got to go to church which was so special to me bc we do that in Ireland and I love it! The kids sat in with us and were far from angles but it was special for james and i to share this with our children. Conor was wearing a tie that sang jingle bells when you pressed the button... bad judgment on my part haha. Erin has learned that we will take her out if she says "i gotta go potty" so she uses that to her advantage ;0) life with a 2 and 4 year old - gotta love it! I really enjoyed singing with the kids and letting them be apart of the worship service in that way.
We had a feast of a christmas dinner and were joined by two sweet families. I felt blessed to the top of my soul being with these people. Our turkey looked (and tasted) so good and very pretty if i do say so myself! it was one of those turkeys that deserved a spot on the table for all to admire :) last years thanksgiving turkey tasted great but didnt earn a spot on the table. So where are my pictures? my camera is broke (note to self - dont let the children use the camera in the future)... sorry folks! James took some christmas pics with his phone so i will put them up soon. After dinner three familes visited friendship manor and sang christmas carols to the elderly. It. was. priceless.
You know my kids by now... far from little angels. All the children were marvelous but since this is my blog I will brag on conor and erin. Erin was as sweet as can be and sang all the words and the people loved watching her precious 2 year old self. Conor was a gentlman. He handed out lots of candy canes and made sure he gave them all big hugs. As a parent, I was soooo very proud of them and how kind they were. All of the children knew the candy canes were for the elderly and didnt moan about it. They loved singing and blessing others - so precious! At the end conor said we didnt tell them about Jesus and we didnt share the story of the candy cane. I told him we would do that next time and that we told them about Jesus through our songs. To say we were blessed would be an understatement. Then we went to our friends house and watched a movie while the kids played :) We have a lot of friends whose families are not in the area so our kids are like cousins. God always blesses!
We had a great christmas! I loved being at home and getting to celebrate the way James and I prefer.
Some blessings that happened for our family were 1) we recieved a christmas card with 100 dollar bill. We wanted to buy a cow from the compassion book to give to a neady family in Africa and God blessed us with that 100 dollar bill - He provided for us! :) 2) James recieved some gift cards to restuarants from some friends in the church. if you know james - he loves eating out (no wise cracks about my cooking) so that was God's gift to him!
3) we got some precious cards from people sharing how much they love us and how thankful they are for us. Being in the ministry, those cards always mean so much. Thank you! James got a plaque for his office from one of the guys he is mentoring with the sweetest note.
That was our christmas. Beautiful. Filled with Christ. Filled with family and friends. Thank you God for your gift of Jesus Christ and thank you for the gift of knowing you now and forever more. I love you!
I am just like my mother and i will go out this Christmas Season singing 'oh i wish it could be christmas every day!' :0)

Tuesday Morning Outreach

2011-12-13T14:00:00.000-05:00

Today was the end of our first season of ladies' outreach. We went to the Mall to hand out candy and say thank you to the cashiers. I bought something in Old Navy and was not brave enough to hand the lady candy and a Bible tract. I was talking to her but was too nervous to do something out of the ordinary - I'm slow sometimes! I met my kids at the mall - their teacher was having them buy christmas presents for a child whose parents are in prision. What a great idea! (the angel trees by the train). I helped them shop for their gifts... I went into the dollar store to buy a big bag for the gifts and while I was there God made me brave. I was able to talk to the cashier about christmas and what his plans where. He said he will not get much time to shop because he is so busy working. I gave him some candy and a Bible tract, along with our christmas program invitation. I said you may not be able to come but maybe your children can. He said he was off sunday night and would like to bring his family to our church. I was delighted! I wont win any prizes for being the most out going christian in the mall today... but I am praying the little I was brave enough to do will be alot for the sake of the Gospel. Little is much when God is in it??
Be brave, friends and ask God how you can be a light in your ordinary activities.
Next season we are going to focus our efforts in three places. The first and fourth tuesdays will be spent at the Baptist Community Center. I will tell you all about that sometime. Our teens go there each wednesday and I am so very proud of them. The second tuesday will be spent at the rescue mission doing various ministries. Our church goes there tuesday nights so we love going and seeing the residents twice in the one day! The third tuesday will be spent at the Roanoke Child Development Center. We have gone there to read to the children and make a craft with them. Our time there was so very precious that we would like to invest into that ministry each month.
God has blessed us with alot of women who have a heart for reaching out. It has been an honor and a blessing to work alongside each of the ladies. May God bless you and if you would like to join us on tuesday mornings from 9 am to 11 am - let me know! We will be starting back Jan 10th :)

I'll be home for Christmas, if only in my Dreams...

2011-12-12T10:09:00.000-05:00

Christmas is my mam's holiday. She LOVES Christmas. I know. Who doesn't? Last year I planned on going home for Christmas but Ireland had so much snow that my flight was cancelled for a week! Craziness! Needless to say I did not get to spend Christmas with my mam. This year James and I will spend Christmas in our home in Virginia. Christmas is a wonderful time of the year... It's a little sad for me too. I know so many who have burdens this time of the year. I feel for you. May we fellowship with Christ during HIS holiday. May we fellowship with each other and share each other's burdens.
Happy Monday, friends. If anyone from Ireland wants to suprise me for Christmas - come on over! :)

The happenings of November

2011-12-06T14:21:00.002-05:00

What did November bring? Well, it brought our family car new tires. Then the very next day the transmission died while I was out with three teen girls with the under the bridge ministry. Made for a fun car ride! Anyways - it would have been easy to say goodbye to the dumb car if we hadnt payed 900 dollars the day before on the thing! We put a transmission in the car the week before Thanksgiving. The same week brought a hair cut to Erin (given by her four year old brother Conor) She brought the scissors to him and asked him to cut her hair... he said why not?! James had to take a trip to Georgia the same week, where someone backed into him and put a hole in the borrowed car he was driving. Friends of ours allowed us to borrow their car to visit James' family for Thanksgiving in Indy. Family gatherings are a sweet and precious time. James got to see his grandma on his mom's side and his grandma and grandpa on his dad's side. Special memories. We thought about cancelling our trip because of all the unexpected bills but we are very glad we got to visit with James' family.
We also got to visit people from our previous church and got to attend a Sunday service. It was a precious time! Hugging the older people brought a tear to my eye because some of their friends have passed away since we have been gone. What a blessing to hug Betty Hough, Aurand and Woods :)I was so proud of the teenagers and how much they have grown in the Lord. It was great to see David leading the music time and wonderful to hear of how well Ashley Bliss is doing and to hear of Brett's engagement. It was a shot in the arm to see teens as adults and know you had a small part in helping them be where they are today. We had a lovely visit with so many. We drove by our old house and it looked like she was away for the weekend. Yes, I would have knocked on the door and invited myself in :) you know that country song 'the house that built me'? i would sing that to her - ok, i wouldnt go that far but i would def knock on the door! :)
The week of thanksgiving brought special guests to our house. His Little Feet ministry had four of their orphan boys stay with us and two chaperones. Having them in my house kept me very thankful for all God has given me. In Christ I am very rich. In Christ, I am a part of the family of God. One of the chaperones is from Ethiopia and grew up in an orpahange. He told me he scribbled out the word 'complain' from his english dictionary. He said we have no reason to complain. So true!
I read the book 'Made to Crave' during the month of November. Very good book and it applies to all of us! Food may not be your issue but we all go to other things at times (most times) instead of crying out to God.
That was my November. It was a full month and it came with a few downs... but the thing I love about downs is the sweet fellowship with God. For some reason, downs help me focus on what it's all about.

Under the Bridge

2011-12-06T13:50:00.000-05:00

We have had a few weeks of under the Bridge ministry since my last post. We have always been blessed by God as He uses us in this ministry. This past Sunday I told Rachel I felt led to go to Friendship Manor, which is a nursing home for the elderly. I told her I didnt feel comfortable going to the park today with out a man with us. To be honest, I was discouraged and tired. I believe God wants me to go out on Sundays to visit the homeless and I bleieve He wants more than me and two teen girls to go. So before we went into the nursing home, we prayed. I said 'Lord, I dont know what this is going to look like but lead us and guide us and we will see what you have for us.' (Those of you who know God - Know He showed up and blessed our hearts!) We walked in the door and there were these beautiful teenage girls there with christmas hats on. They were there to sing to the residents! I was blessed by that because God said 'you are not alone'. Then Rachel K saw someone she knew and that girl told her she was in Teen Challenge. Then Rachel K and Rachel B knew another girl that they had been in school with who was in the program. Rachel B had a picture of this girl on her phone as her screen saver and she had told this girl that her picture would remain on her phone for her nine months of treatment and Rachel would be praying for her all the time. You should have seen the sweet reunion of these friends! I was so blessed. God wanted us there and He wanted us to hug on these teenage girls and cheer them on in their journey of recovery. I walked in carrying a cup of tea because I needed a pick me up - let me tell you, friends, I left singing and praising God because He came and met us there!! It was so awesome! The girls had pictures and candles they had made as well as some jewlery. We got to buy some of their crafts and plan on putting the picture in our Sunday school class to remember to pray for these sweet girls. What did I learn today? Be obedient to God, even when you are unsure of what it is going to look like. Allow Him to lead and be ready to see His miracles. The girls in Teen Challenge are not allowed to talk to people from their past but because it was so random, the teacher allowed them to talk. Random? God!! :0)

Under the Bridge- take 3

2011-11-08T16:12:00.000-05:00

Rachel and I got to talk to the two people who asked Jesus to save them the week before. It was so sweet. What I loved was when the man saw Rachel he ran to her and told her where he and the lady were sitting and asked Rachel to come up to them. We were honored to talk to them and I was blessed by how much Rachel had touched their lives the week before.
Then we met this guy who made us think... We told him 'for all have sinned' Romans 3:23. He said 'no, that's not true. I have never sinned'. I told him I have and he said 'well, I know people struggle. Thank you for being honest'. He said Noah, Job and Daniel were perfect. He said 'if we entertain angels unaware then they must come in the form of human beings and are without sin'. I told him my story of how I came to God and told him he had a Bible, a brain - and the Spirit of God would reveal Himself to him. I wasn't there to argue but to spread the Gospel. What was so interesting about this guy was that he had his Bible wrapped in a few plastic bags and the Bible was well worn by him and he knew each story inside and out. He had his sleeping bag rolled up on the top of his bag. This guy was homeless. He had the Word of God and he read it. What would you have said to him?

Tuesday Morning Outreach

2011-11-08T15:39:00.002-05:00

I love Tuesdays! I have to admit, I do not love it when I am waking up Tuesday morning... But something happens as I get out of my comfort zone and ask God to help me, guide me, and work through me. I pray this prayer - especially on Tuesday Mornings.
Rachel joined us today. Rachel is my dear teenage friend (who many have asked if she is my daughter as we outreach together). It is a compliment! She gets a note from her mom and skips her favorite class to reach others for the Lord Jesus.
Another lady joined us who felt led by the Holy Spirit to call Donita and ask her for outreach ideas...She did not know about our Tue Morn Club :) I was blessed by meeting her today and was awed how God led her to us!
The usuals were there who are all wonderful ladies - I just felt led to share these two women's stories with you today. Not sure who is reading. I know Grandma Carma is and I know she will love hearing how God is working in Roanoke! :) You all are terrible about leaving comments by the way - I like to write on here though, thinking one day I will print it off and give it to Conor and Erin and whoever else joins our family.
Back to today. We went down by the Rescue Mission. Some of us worked in the second hand store and some of us 'hit the streets' as we like to call it :) Rachel and I had some interesting converstaions. One man asked us to bring him a large print king james version Bible. We are coming back tonight so we will be honored to do that for him. Another guy moved here from Colorado two months ago. I asked if he had family in CO. He said no. His mom died two months ago and he got on a bus and arrived in Roanoke, Virginia. Wow! How sad... to be all alone with no family, job or money in a new town and state. And grieving the loss of your mother.
We talked to James. God led us to him and it was an amazing forty minute interaction! He said he got one of our Bible tracts a few weeks ago in the park and he said he got to talk to a really cool guy (you don't know how happy I am when people say they have seen us 'SBC' before!) I love it that the homeless people in Roanoke are starting to know who we are, what we are about - that we sincerly care for them.
He told us how he has been shot six different times and how the last time changed his life forever. He said God saved him that day and he has been trying to serve him ever since. He has a son in prison. Please pray that his son will accept Jesus and change his wicked ways. He said his son will be an old man when he gets out of prison. I asked if he has visited his son and he said he cannot because he has spent time in prison and that means he can never visit the prisons. You could see how sad he was for his son and how he felt he was in some way responsable.
While we were talking to him a group of rough men walked up and started to talk to us. It was a not so good situation. Rachel knew I'd be freakin out! I remained calm :) James told them sturnly that we were talking about the Bible and they apoligized and walked away. That, my friends, is the power of God. I will add that it was broad daylight and other members of our group could see us so we were not in real danger... James thanked us for stopping and talking to him. He thanked us for praying for his son. Please pray for a job for James and spiritual freedom for his son.
The other ladies ministered to a crying mother who seemed worn out. She is going to college full time, has three children and lives at the Mission. Lord, please bless her heart and use us to do that.
It was a great day! Tonight, we get to go back and have a church service with the women of the Mission. I love seeing them and know I am doing what God has me to do today. Galations 2 says to minister to the poor. James 2 says the poor are rich in the things of the Lord. They seem to know Him more than the people who have money. I'd rather have Jesus than anything this world affords today! Please join me in reaching out to the poor...

Dragon's Tooth

2011-11-04T11:24:00.000-04:00

Ahhhh! Refreshing! I said to James ' thanks for doing something fun with me'. He said 'youre welcome' - haha! I was expecting something a little more romantic than that! :) So thankful to live in such a beautiful place and so thankful to walk alongside James xoxox

Dragon's Tooth

2011-11-04T11:14:00.001-04:00

Dragon's Tooth Hike with my hubby

2011-11-04T11:02:00.001-04:00

I love alone time with James. You know? When we are not using oxy clean and not cleaning up the toy room... We took off for a beautiful hike and enjoyed time together along with the beauty Autumn brings.

The leaves are beautiful..

James wiped out and I was afraid he was going to fall down the mountain. This hike requires better shoes than the ones James had on - just sayin.

This hike had some climbing to it. It was fun but def harder than Macafee's knob. James liked the excitement of it. I did after I completed it :)

Layman's Farm with Conor's K4 class

2011-11-04T10:44:00.000-04:00

I bought some face paint and made conor into a tiger for halloween school day - why not? Mother's can do anything.

Look at Erin jumping so high...

This is Papa Zurg. A kind man who allows Conor to call him Papa Zurg. Conor has told me many times how he wants Papa Zurg to come to his birthday party... next july.

Conor's pals - Trevin and Elijah

Ok - I really should have packed a coat and hat for this little girl... she wore my jacket for a little while. Sorry Erin!

The joys of parenting

2011-11-04T10:21:00.000-04:00

Meet Bible Man. Bible Man is a corny dvd that Conor heard about through a cool friend. He watched it. Loved it and is now - Bible Man. All day Every day. He used to be Spider man but he has now decided that Bible Man is waaaay cooler ;)

Conor was Bible Man for Halloween. I thought what will the neighbor's say about his costume... 'and who are you??' 'I'm Bible Man' ... hmmmm I asked him if anyone asked who he was and he said one kid in a cool pirate costume said conor's costume was awesome. I was a happy mom that someone gave him a compliment :) Erin was suppose to be Bible girl but as she was getting ready to leave the house she got her usual outfit on... a princess dress that she wears all day every day ;) I'll put a pic a her up later... although you have seen it before on here with spider man :)

This is Erin playing a game on James' I Phone. The girl knows how to use the phone better than me. She likes to get her teddies around her and teach them how to play. Most nights when Erin is supposed to be going to sleep, she sets her teddies up and reads them stories. This girl is a hoot! The other day - she pulled the fire alarm at school and everyone. EVERYONE had to leave the building. All the primary school and High school... a fire engine came to the school. I'm afraid to say that Erin is actually more wild than her brother. Last night we put the kids to bed and went down to the basement. Bad idea. Minutes later, Erin got into a diaper cream (big tub of Sudo Cream) in my room and plasterd it every where. She needed a bath and the upstairs needed Oxy clean. Oxy clean has been my best friend. She has done this many times with many items... cough medicine was last week(that was red mind you!) The child is still alive and we are learning great patience :)

Layman's Farm is one of my favorite places in the Fall. The kids have so much fun there and the scenery is beautiful!

Sharing the message of God's Love

2011-11-04T09:51:00.000-04:00

These are some of the awesome people I have had the oppertunity of ministering with. The first group are on the way to down town Roanoke to give out some food and the message of who God is and how much He loves them. Awesome time of sharing our faith with those who need to hear. We go sunday afternoons about 1:15 - all are welcome to join us :)

Two Tuesday nights a month we head down to the Rescue Mission and have a Gospel service with the people there. This is us after the service sharing what God has done in the lives of the people there. I love this ministry and this group of people!

I've been slackin on pictures :)

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A pic of Addie,Kendra and Erin. Kendra has grown so much since this pic... i have to keep a close eye on the older two because they both think they could be her mother - it is funny to watch! I love babysitting because I get to love more children, stay at home with my children and make some extra money for the family. It is perfect for us!

Conor wanted to make a calender. This was the first time he sat down and copied words. He was writing the days of the week - Mrs Jones says she think he will be reading by the end of Jan... wow.

Erin was sitting on the wooden stool in the kitchen. She fell off the stool onto the floor - then the wooden stool fell on top of her and hit her in the head. Big screams and huge bump on the head. Things like this happen to Erin all the time.

Poor Erin...

Under the Bridge - take 2

2011-10-24T09:35:00.000-04:00

We went back to the park yesterday with more food and more teenagers. We were suprised to find the park not as packed as the week before, so we had to spread out to three different areas which worked out well.
Rachel got to lead two precious people to the Lord - Praise God! Sommer got to talk to a pastor's kid who is living at the Rescue Mission because of bad choices. I got to talk to a man who is new to the area and is in need of finding a church - maybe we were sent to remind him to get in a good church where he can be blessed by God. I also got to talk to two teen guys who told me about all the troubles they have been in lately. It was so sad because these teens had aching hearts. They need someone to love them and guide them. One of them said he didnt care about God until 4 months ago... What a privaledge to be a little light to him and his friend. I hope I see them again. They were very hungry and we were honored to share spiritual and physical food with these precious boys.
Rachel was talking to this scary looking guy so I walked up to support her. This guy was a teddy bear! As he shared his story my heart broke for him. The terrible things that happened to him along the way... The thought I walked away with is - these homeless people are not as scary as I give them credit for. They are lost,sad,scared individuals. They need help. They need help from me. They need help from you. They need Jesus. Will you come and tell them with me?

weekend notes

2011-10-21T19:48:00.000-04:00

The other day I said to Conor, 'I don't feel well'. He said, 'you don't FEEL well??'. I said, 'yes'... He said, 'well stop concentrating on your feelings!'... he made me laugh because this boy is me all over! :)

The other day we were playing out in the front yard. Conor saw the neighbor boys and decided he was going to go over and tell them about Jesus. We came into the house and got them some candy and a halloween joke/Bible tract. I am blessed by his desire to share about God. I am thankful that he knows about God at his young age. May it continue...

In pre school this week, Mr Hollins came in and told the children about being a firefighter. He must have used the phrase ' back in the old days' because conor has been using that phrase since! :) He said 'you don't remember telling me that because you told me that back in the old days... He told me ' back in the old days horses would carry the water to the fire and the dalmation dogs were there to calm the horses.

Hey - something to think about... what have you done today that only a Christain would do? What have you done today that could only be done through the power of the Holy Spirit? Something God has been saying to me lately.

'Let the blessings you've poured out on me, not be spent on me in vain. Let this life be used for change!'

Under the Bridge - take 1

2011-10-18T13:47:00.000-04:00

Some of the people in our church feel led to bring food to the homeless people in downtown Roanoke each Sunday afternnon. We want to listen to their life stories and share our God story with them. This past Sunday was our first experience. We have seen a lot of homeless people 'under the bridge' before. But this past week, there were alot (over 50 people) hanging out in the park. God led us to them. It was awesome to bring them food and see them come and take that gift. It was neat to talk to them and hear their prayer requests and bring them before the Holy God who loves them deeply.

You know what's sad? Seeing homeless children napping on a park bench. You know what else is sad? Meeting a 20 year old girl who left her family in Florida and is living on the streets. But she has a job! She sells vacuums door to door. How depressing! When I talked to this young girl, I asked her if her momma's heart was breaking? She looked sad and said "yes". But she knew she could never return home. Whatever had happened? maybe this young girl had pushed her momma too far and her momma had to let her go. My heart breaks for her. She looked so lost sitting on that park bench. She looked like life was hopeless. God, I pray that I will see her again and that she would come to know you as the Father to the fatherless and that she will commit her ways to you and allow you to bless her.

I saw another young girl that i have seen many times at the Mission. She was hanging out in the park with her newborn baby. It was a blessing to see her there. We planned to get together this week but she cancelled. This isnt the first time that has happened. My heart breaks for her because she doesnt seem to realize the great plan God has for her and how much He can bless her. We are to meet up tomorrow - be praying she comes and that God speaks to her through His Word. She is a girl that God keeps bringing accross my path,mind and heart. I pray that her life is turned upside down and that she experiences the grace, love of God.

I met a lady who was high on drugs. God brought us there to pray over her.

I am honored to be apart of this group.
Next sunday we are bringing some guitars and hope to bless them through song. As the weather gets colder, we will collect donated blankets to distribute. In a few weeks, we will start making soup, coffee and hot chocolate. I am excited to see more and more of my friends join us to love on these precious people. Will you come? Will you come and see what God will do through you? Through your donations?

Yes. Sunday was a good day. A sad day but it was/is a good kind of sad - a sad that gets your bum in gear! A sad that gets your eyes off yourself and on to someone else. We have so much and we are blessed to be a blessing.
come - be a blessing...
Sunday (1:15 infront of SBC worship center) Bring a loaf of bread and some sandwhich meat.

Courageous

2011-10-12T11:11:00.002-04:00

James and I went to the movies and watched Courageous - the movie was so good!! Daddys- lead your families!! I am blessed to be married to such a wonderful daddy who takes his job seriousally.
The father is to lead the family. I am praying for all the teens/children in our church to be lead by their daddys. God's Word gives you all the information/power you need to train up your children in the way they should go.
Invest into the life of your children and your children's children.
Mom's - if your husband is not leading your children in the ways of the Lord, pray for your husband to have the courage to lead. Pray for him to step up and be what God wants him to be.
There are families where dad is gone - those are the familes that need the church to be their families. They need the church to reach out and be the dad that they do not have. We are called to love the widows and orphans. Yes - we are called to love everyone.. but I hope you get my drift. If you come from a home where dad is involved - thank God and count your many blessings! If you have a friend whose dad is gone - ask God if they are to be apart of your family. Follow God and His Word... and dads? Be Courageous!

Overheard at my house :)

2011-09-29T11:14:00.000-04:00

'mom, do you think I'm ready to be a soccer coach??' - conor

I called Erin 'blondie' the other day because... I'm sorry but at the age of 2... she is out there. Conor said "can we call her that forever?" ... i wont call you that again Erin - promise ;)

Last night Conor asked "who is coming to get me and bring me to Heaven when I die? God or Jesus?"

Conor said " how can I get to California? the people need to be rescued there and I am a rescue hero!"

Last night at bedtime he said he does not need to wear a pull up because Trevor does not wear one... I told him when he wakes up in a dry pull up three nights in a row he doesnt have to wear one anymore. Good luck on that one!

Conor went to K3 to be Mrs Jones helper today - he is excited to help and be the leader. That kid loves to be in charge... no idea where that comes from :)

I was getting the kids ready for bed last night and conor had snorkel goggles on and was holding his finding nemo surf board. He was jumping from the top bunk and trying to land and "swim" on the board. It might sound terrible but I find it so funny that he really thinks he can do these things. I draw the line when Erin is standing behind him and he is trying to convince her to hold on and his magic powers will make her fly. He wanted to bring his bunkbeds for show and tell today...

Andi likes boys named Jack more than boys name Conor.

It is precious to hear the thoughts from these children. Erin does not say much that I understand but she sure does smile and laugh alot and we laugh along with her!

September in a nutshell

2011-09-28T15:05:00.000-04:00

How was the Beth Moore Simulcast? Awesome! As one of the leaders, what I loved about it the most was how many volunteers gave their Saturday and ministered to so many! It was a blessing to be a part of the team! We had a lot of visitors. Our new Tue morning outreach group got to visit with a few of the visitors and one of the ladies joined the Fall Beth Moore Bible study :)
Our Tue morning outreach has been great because it keeps me on my toes. It keeps me seeing the needs of others and helps me not be as selfish as I can be. Yesterday we made some cakes,pies and cookies and went around the community and passed them out. It was so sweet to go to the fire department and say thanks for all they do and ask them how we can pray for them. I love it! That is an activity you can do with your children but some of the other stops would not be appropriate for the kiddos... Next week we are visiting a lady who just got an apartment and we know her from the rescue mission. We are having a house warming party for her and visiting her neighbors. I am so happy to have the chance to do this and love watching God work in people's lives and hearts.
We have some new volunteers coming with us to the Rescue Mission. What a blessing! There is a special angel, Amy, who works with the children. Please pray for her as that is a tough job! She has great help but would love some more! I am praying that some teen boys would volunteer to go there. These children love hanging out with the men. Alot of them do not have a daddy in their lives which is so sad.
I have been praying for someone to help me with my kids so that james and I can go to the rescue mission and not have to pay a babysitter each time. That might sound selfish but without family here we pay for a babysitter alot and believe me, it is well worth it. God sent someone to us who volunteered to watch our children while we go there. Wow - so thankful!!
The kids are enjoying school. Conor did not get a star the last two days at school. When I asked him why he was messing - he said because it is so fun to mess! Can I say trouble maker?! He is so smart though :) Erin is loving school and always good. We ask her about school each day and her answer is always "mrs jones" - no matter what you ask her! Hopefully next year she will know what is going on :) Conor told me he leaves the tv on for his teddies so that they don't get lonely... are you kidding me? we are not paying for your teddies to watch tv - ha!
Conor asked me yesterday when are we going to have another baby. I told him we have to train Erin some more first. He said are we going to help an orphan? He has a money bank in his room the shape/picture of the world. He is saving to give to the orphans. He comes out with this all by himself. It is precious to hear his heart for others and long may it continue. We are hoping to join a foster agency soon and get our license as foster parents. We hope to be foster parents Sep 2012 when Conor is in K5 and Erin is in K3 - I will have more time to devote to our new additions. We hope to foster for a year or two (children younger than Conor and Erin) and then be availabe to adopt. I don't mind having children for a few weeks and then giving them back... if I don't do it - who will? What will happen to the baby? I am excited to get the ball rolling but I know I need this time to invest in the two God has given me and to help ground them in the ways of God.
This may come across as a post blabbing all about me but I guess that is what blogs are for :) and I want to write this down bc it is a part of our family's journey. We have talked about being foster parents since before we were married and I am excited that the time is getting closer. There is a girl in my small group whose family just started foster care and she has asked prayer for two boys to settle in to their home. My heart leaps each time I hear of people caring for others like this and I cannot wait to join them.
We went to Layman's Farm last saturday. It was a beautiful day and we had fun! We went there last year with my two sisters. I just went home a few weeks ago so my heart doesnt ache anymore... that might sound terrible but I think my heart is full of gladness that I got to go so when I think of them I am still happy. I guess I will know when it is time to go home... when my heart starts aching. I just have to pray that their heart aches first and they fly over to me and save me the trip :) Well, i hope you have a great day and I hope you follow your God given dreams.
Blessings!

Where did August go????

2011-09-05T09:45:00.001-04:00

I can't believe I let August go without saying a single word on here. I am sure you missed me :)
We have had such a great summer that I think I was just busy relaxing... and then I jumped on a plane and headed home to Ireland. It was such a blessing to go home and see my family. I have not been in the same room as my mam and sisters in three years so it was a delight to go to our childhood holiday spot together and laugh!
I have also been busy putting together an event for the ladies of Roanoke. We are hosting the Beth Moore Simulcast Sep 10 - this saturday :0) We are so excited to have over 250 ladies signed up... I think we will have 300 by the end of the week. Beth is speaking about the Love of God. I pray we all grow in our knowledge and relationship with our Heavenly Father this week.
Another ladies' ministry is starting up September 13th. We are going to meet in the Annex, pray for the lost and then go out and share our faith with the lost in our community. It is exciting to me because we are meeting at the same time as the women's Bible study - so we can share childcare. Alot of moms would like to get out in the community but are restricted with their little angels... this gives them/me the oppertunity :)
The kiddos started school a few weeks ago (K3 and K4). They both have Mrs. Jones as their teacher. We love Mrs Jones!
Our church hired a new music pastor and a new family pastor. Both families are precious and I am so very happy to minister along with so many wonderful people. We are blessed. Very blessed to be at SBC!

Lots of fun, Lots of friends, Lots of awesome memories!

2011-07-16T11:44:00.000-04:00

Austin is such a cutie!

Let the Fun Continue...

2011-07-16T10:52:00.000-04:00

Let me just say that Pinatas are ALOT of fun! I would love to have one at my next birthday bash :) Wouldnt that be fun?!

Party at our house! :)

2011-07-16T10:08:00.000-04:00

Conor's Party at the Fire Station

2011-07-16T09:52:00.000-04:00

Conor's 4th Birthday Party

2011-07-16T09:42:00.001-04:00

We had a blast at Conor's party! We were blessed to have alot of his (and my) friends there. Conor wanted to visit the fire station and he wanted a dirt cake with worms(from the max and ruby show - see why we cancelled tv?) for his birthday cake :0) A few months ago he saw a pinata on the Dora show and asked if he could have one at his party. By all means! We had his party a week early because alot of his firends were going on vacation - thank you to all who came and made Conor's birthday so special. It means alot to us. We all felt very loved! Look at Conor's awesome shirt that Addie's grandma made for him... A Perfect Day!

1000 Gifts

2011-07-11T09:42:00.001-04:00

I told you I read a book called 1000 gifts. The author wrote down 1000 things she was thankful for throughout the year - She said this exercise changed her life, attitude and mindset. Last night, I passed 100 things that I am thankful for. I am enjoying this journey of thankfulness and I love having my thoughts recorded in a journal for my children to read one day.
When I was in Hawaii, I thought I would knock out the 1000 things pretty quick. By the time I got to 35 I was drawing a blank - isnt that terrible?! Each day I like to write down a few things I am thankful for and focus/remember the wonderful things God has done for me and for those around me.
I am not going to post my thankfulness list on here but I will let you know when I reach 1000. I'm the kind of girl who has great (i think so anyway!) ideas... but I forget them the next day or get bored and move on! James has been a wonderful example to me at finishing what you start. I am growing in this area - never too late, right? This post it to encourage you to start your own journey of thankfulness and watch what God has for you in this journey.
'Be thankful at all times and in all things' a verse that conficts me often.

Last post on July 4th - i realy should learn how to post more than a few pics in a post!

2011-07-07T12:52:00.000-04:00

More pics from July 4th

2011-07-07T12:45:00.000-04:00

I have not seen many firework shows so i love this tradition! Going to a park and watching fireworks. This is my second time and it is so. much. fun!!! Conor loooved them. Elijah loved them too but he loved sitting by conor more than the fireworks :) Erin liked them. She kept her hands over her ears for most of it. Fireworks on the fourth of July? pretty cool if ya ask me. Best part of the holiday.

July 4th

2011-07-07T12:35:00.000-04:00

We went to see fireworks with Elijah and his parents. Conor and Elijah were delighted to be together! It is fun to see your kids having fun :)

Mexico Report at SBC

2011-07-07T12:17:00.000-04:00

Sunday night, the Mexico team shared what God taught them during their trip. It was a wonderful night. I loved hearing what God taught each of the people who shared.

I love these two! You know? there are some people that just warm my hearT to be around! These two are awesome. They never have a bad word to say. They are always telling me how much they love me and how much they love James. Who doesnt want to hear loving kind words?! And I am always laughing at or with Steve - he could be a comedian!

When You're the Best of Friends...

2011-07-07T11:24:00.001-04:00

We brought the spider man cape back from Mexico. Conor loves being the super hero. He tells Erin that he will rescue her because she is the princess. They are so precious together (most of the time!)
When we came back from Mexico, there was a little Kitten around our house. We didnt feed her for a while but she wasnt going away so we fed her. For a few days, we played outside with Emily (the kitten). The kids and I loved having her around. On a sad Thursday, daddy brought the kitten to work. You all know what that means. Emily was gone. Conor said daddy was bringing Emily to her real home and she wouldnt be lost anymore. Yep. That's exactly what daddy did, Conor. So - I am hoping for a homeward bound experience where Emily finds her way back to Barrens Village Lane. We didnt want a pet but the pet found us. Well, good luck Emily. Hope you find a nice home. Our kids were 'funny', maybe even cruel pet owners. They put Emily on the trampoline, they gave her rides down the slide. I looked out one day and Emily left the backyard. I said "Why did Emily leave?" " O - we were squirting her with our water guns". That will do it! So - hopefully Emily is enjoying kinder pet owners :)

Mexico Missions

2011-06-30T14:57:00.003-04:00

It is very hard to write about Mexico after my Hawaii experience. The trips could not have been any more different. I was humbled many times in Mexico and saddened by their poverty.
The trip started off sad because one of our members stayed behind after loosing a precious baby in the womb the day before we were to leave. We were sad for him and his wife and pray blessing and healing on their family.

We met at the church at 11:30 pm, drove the church bus to Dullas, flew to chicago, then to California. Then we drove 3 rented 15 passenger vans an hour into Mexico. The trip was loooong but everything went very smoothly. When we got to Mexico Caravan Ministries alot of us were suprised with how 'basic' the accomadations were. 27 of us girls were in one small room with triple bunk beds. We used every bed and 4 people shared. There were 4 toilets for 40 girls (there was another group there too) 1 mirror and no outlets. No hair dryers and no hair straighteners - hey you were lucky to get a shower :) I quickly realized how spoiled and bratty I am and how I am so used to convenience. I kept looking at James like ' was he tricking us?' he said the accomadations were fine and the CBC group that he took before didnt complain when they came home? What was I missing? I was wondering why he looked so happy here and why he thought the place was so great. I was not seeing or feeling greatness!

Monday morning we headed to build our first home for a family. I put a few breakfast bars in my bag (they dont really like you to do that because it is offensive not to eat the mexican's food) I already told you how bratty I am. When we arrived up this very steep and dangerous (in my spoiled opinion) hill, we met the family we were building for. We started to talk to the man and he informed us that he just got out of prision. He had been in for 18 years. None of us were brave or stupid enough to ask what he had done but it was a little scary and humbling to be building the house for this man. They had one small shelter they were living in. They did not have a toilet but they had a stove, a lady, a little girl, the prision guy, a dog or two, a bed. They made our lunch in there. They also gave us drinks that were in re used pop bottles. They obviousally dont have dish washers so I stuck to the water we brought. I was so proud of the teens who ate and drank their food. I did eat some of the food but I have no idea what the meat was (dog is my guess)?! James ate my left overs. There was not alot of food so I am sure the family was very poor and sacrificed alot to feed us. James thought it tasted good. But by this time in the trip I was realizing that he was def wearing rose colored glasses and I needed to be more like him - but I was not feeling it yet and my glasses were still seeing a totally dif picture. Yes - I did eat one of my speial K breakfast bars in private. James was not very happy at me and couldnt believe I was having trouble loving every moment like he was. It was hot, people - and hammering nails on the roof and putting a house together in a place that I felt was a little on the dangerous side was a tad more difficult that I thought. And I was dying to go to the loo! There was no loo to be found. Our bladders got used to it after the fist day. James, of course, never found it to be a problem :) Mexico? a very humbling experience and a realization of how selfish and spoiled I am. Cara was my hero! She never stopped working and I am sure she didnt love it but I never heard her complain. She was my role model :) I dont think she even sneaked a breakfast bar!
At the end of the day , the ex prision guy said this was the best day of his life. He said no one had ever done something so nice for him and he couldnt imagine his life being any better than this. He meant it. He thought this 12 x 12 shelter we built for him and the lady and the little girl and the dogs was the best thing ever! He couldnt imagine being any happier than he felt right then. This man was crying. God showed love through us. God loved this man and HE choose to allow us to show this man love on HIS bahalf. I was so humbled and thankful that God used us/me. I had a hard day and the hardest part was seeing how selfish I was.
Tuesday was another great day giving a home to a family. We gave two of our guys away for the day to help pour a cement slab so our group had to work harder without the two guys which was actually more fun. Because everyone was needed at all times. Our lunch was actually good and we had a toilet! I didnt use it because there was a chicken or a rooster in there :)
Each morning we had a service were a missionary would speak to us. These times were so precious and we heard so many soul stiring things. I was starting to see why James liked it so much...
We heard things like ' we are blessed to be a blessing' (it means something totally dif when you are faced with such poverty). We are to be people of prayer, people of humility,people of surrender, people of understanding, people of faith. They told us to live intentional lives for the unreached people to hear. There are many people who have never heard about Jesus Christ. Ireland has and can hear, Americans can hear but there are people who do not know and we need to tell them. We need to be ready to go. I need to not get caught up in the material things of this world and culture. Dont be tied down with debt so if God says GO! We can pick up and GO! I want to go and let the lost know. I want to be caught doing God's business. God shouldnt be first on our list. HE IS THE LIST! I loved the talks and God stirred my heart to wake up to the people who have never heard. God cares for the poor. He wants me to care more,give more,keep less and go more!
Building the four homes was a great experience. It was great for the families to have a home and it was great what God did in my heart.

The last day we visited two orpahages. When we pulled up at the first orphanage, the little children were standing at the gate. So sad! When we came in I was blessed to see Annette and Emily both find little babies straight away. They would of taken the babies home if they could. We were all touched by the poverty in the orphanage. We brought juice and Pizza for the children. But the babies needed their milk. We asked a lady for the baby's bottle and she said 'sorry, no water'. Our hearts broke. The baby ended up drinking some of the juice we brought. We saw how we can send money for water. That's not hard and a very basic need for these precious babies. I saw a little boy Conor's age running around with a super hero mask on. There was still joy in the little children's eyes. The teenagers, however, seemed like they knew they would never be apart fo a 'family'. It was precious to see our team love on these children. May God bless these little children in a mighty way and may He use us to do it!
My trip to Mexico was sad. It was sad to see how poor they are and how rich we are. I am asking God what He would have me do with all of this infomation. We build the homes and then there is a group who come and tell these families about Christ and His love for them. The gospel is in Mexico. But there are countries that do not know. May God open my eyes more to this realization.
I think by the end of the week, we realized how great the accomadations truely were and how blessed we were to be apart of it. I don't think James loved having me along on this trip but I learned alot and admire him all the more! note to self - always carry clean water and a few breakfast bars :0)

Conor and Erin? they stayed at our house with Papa and Grandma and had a blast. Conor said the time with Papa and Grandma went by too quick. We are staying home for the rest of the year (and i may stay in my pajamas)!! We made a decision to get rid of TV watching in our home. There were alot of speakers that were a little rough around the edges and honestly, if these men can live without it - so can we! May God be glorified.

2011-06-30T13:25:00.000-04:00

Hawaii - O how I love thee

2011-06-16T23:27:00.001-04:00

James and I went away for a very very very fun, short week to Maui, Hawaii. We had soooo much fun! James took me there for my 30th birthday. I told him I would like to go to a Luau for my 30th birthday (dream big, right?). Funny thing? Luau was prob my least fav thing we did - ha! Not a fan of buffet style eating and not a fan of half or more than half naked people. Yes. I am very picky. I did love lying in the hammack afterward listening to the ocean and the live music playing behind us. It was the most beautiful trip I have ever been on and it def was a dream come true.

While I was there I read 'One Thousand Gifts'. A very good book about focusing on giving thanks to God. I had no problem being thankful in Hawaii in a high point of my life. I pray that I will pull that book out in the very low times and choose to be thankful - choose Joy. Awesome trip, Awesome company!

Am I sad that I am 30? No way! I have been waiting to age a little (i know i am still young - don't be offended. you're still young too. relax)... so I could have some 'soap boxes' :) I told James that and he said ' you have been holding back?' haha - heaven help my captive audience :0)
My fav things in Hawaii were the sunsets, snorkeling (i swam with a sea turtle and fell in love) and seeing the dolphins. The dolphins did all the tricks you see them do in shows. I was blessed to see these dolphins play happily in the wild. So beautiful! They were doing all sorts of flips and a few of them waved at me :) Yes. I am still smiling.
Did I miss my kids? of course. But they were in great hands and I enjoyed the special time with James. First time we have gone away for fun - no conference invited. Best Birthday Everrrrrr!

Smith Mountain State Park - Memorial Day

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For the second year in a row, we packed a cooler, bathing suits and headed to the beach for memorial day. We call it the beach - sand and water makes a beach for this family :) We had so much fun. We got there at 10:30 and stayed until 4:00pm. When we were leaving Conor said 'we just got here!'. We wanted to stay longer but it was soooo hot and we wanted to leave before melt downs took place. Its a good thing we did because poor conor got burned. bad! Im a bad mom - sorry conor. He had a sun hat on but when he took the hat off, his ears and neck got burned. He has been wearing alot of cream to get over the blisters on his ears. So last week he couldnt see bc of the dog alergies and this monday it was his ears from too much sun. 2 bad weeks in a row for the little guy! James and I had fun watching the kids enjoy the lake so much. We bought little chairs so our feet could sit in the water without our bums having to sit in the sand. It was comfy and our chairs were just 10 dollars at walmart. I think I would like to upgrade to the 20 dollar chairs though - really live in style, ya know? :)All about comfort! The bottom of my leg got burned though so note to self - Conor and me need a whole lot of sun screen to enjoy the beach in the future. James and Erin can handle it better than us. It was a fun family day. Sure - it was crowded. Sure - the water looked nasty. But it worked for the 2 and 3 yr old. We got there eary and had a good spot. That helped :)

James Dobson's daddy used to take them to the beach every week on his day off. He was in the ministry and it was before cell phones, so when they went to the beach he was with his family for the whole day without interuption. I think Family time is very important and a lost art in this day and age. I am blessed to have a man who knows the importance of family time. We all came back refreshed!

fun in the sun!

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Ahhh for the simple life. We have a blast out the back. Playing in the water, swingin on the swings. I am loving this summer :) God has blessed me soooo very much and I am very thankful, full of Joy and loving His grace. Praise God from whom all blessings flow!

Conor asked to have a tail

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He thought if he had a tail he could wind it up and run so fast!!! He really believes all his ideas. It is fun to hear his ideas... he is always a little sad when reality hits.
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Conor loves to bring me 'flowers' fromt he garden (yard). He was so upset to see daddy mowing over the 'flowers'. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. I did break it to him that daddy was mowing over weeds. Reality once again... poor child of three years old.

Conor Loves Dogs - his skin does not...

2011-06-01T11:06:00.000-04:00

We were at a friend's house last week. Conor and Erin had so much fun with their two dogs. But after a littl while, Conor's face started to break out and he was having a hard time seeing. I took him home and gave him medicine but the poor guy was out of sorts for a few days because of his alergic reaction to the cute,fun dogs. James and I felt bad... but it also made it easier for us to not get a dog ;0) Don't comment and tell me ways around it - we have a good excuse and we are sticking with it thanks very much! love you Conor :0)

I'm lovin it!

2011-05-23T09:49:00.000-04:00

We went out with our friends for dinner the other night - we had a great time of course! At the end of our time together, thier baby was crying in her car seat. James and I were like 'awe, the poor baby!'. The parents were in their groove and put the other kids in the car and carried on (like ya do!). James and I drove home in amazement - that we made it. It's been close to four years of baby stuff and we are out of the woods (for now), enjoying some non baby moments. Children are a blessing. Babies are a blessing... But I'm enjoying this time were both children can walk beside me, climb into the car by themself, play on the swings, go down the slide - alone. Without me holding on to them. It's fun :0) My kids like to dress themself. I find it interesting to see what they pick! Erin is always in some sort of princess garb :)

The fun we have!

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Conor made a sign for his bedroom door that says 'No Fighting with Erin!'.

He has asked before if he can make a sign that says 'No Erin's Allowed!'.

We told him no so he made this sign thinking Erin would obey the rule and not fight with him in his room. Ha - Erin likes to come in and play in Conor's room. She likes to take the toy that Conor is playing with (that doesn't go down well). They have a great time together and are the best of friends... most of the time! This summer will be so much fun bc Erin is a little girl and not a baby. Erin says she is a princess and wears her princess clothes all the time. Last week she wore her princess dress and high heals to church - she makes me laugh! James and I are very blessed to have these two treasures.

MacAfee Knob - part of the Appalachian Trail

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McAfee Knob - awesome hike with the hubby!

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Our friends went on this hike/date last summer and we/i have been wanting to go ever since. Wow - going on a walk/hike - just me and James... Hours together out in the great outdoors. This sounds silly to those of you who are not married or without children. But for those of you in our shoes you know how rare and wonderful this sounds. We enjoyed seeing the shaddow of the clouds on the mountains. It was fun to drink the spring water and it was alot of fun to have quiet peace for a few hours. This year we have been taking time out for the two of us and it has helped me alot to feel like my own person. I love being a mother but I kinda like being Aisling too (without snot on my shirt and toddler issues inside my mind constantly). Call me selfish/dramactic but it is keeping me sane :) It was a beautiful day and I came back refreshed! I love making memories with my man.

I'm Singing in the Rain

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Mother's Day Treasures

2011-05-11T09:34:00.006-04:00

Conor came home from school on Thursday with this precious Mother's Day gift for me. He put it behind his back and told me to close my eyes. It was so sweet! The card made me smile because he put a pic of me and him on there. And then he put a circle and a line through it - that means no drawing on walls -ha! yes, we have that problem once in a while! What a special gift! I put my flower in the kitchen window and he said that was a good idea. He said Mrs Jones said the mommys would prob put it beside their bed or in the kitchen window :) He has been making sure the flower gets sunshine and water. That was my precious gift that I will remember fondly. It is sweet to see your child so happy to give you a gift. I'm so thankful God allowed me to be a mother. Thank you family, for making my day so special!! The flower got to be our center piece for sunday dinner that daddy made. James asked Conor to mention how he was thankful for mommy and Conor said she takes care of me. Erin was there too but she is still on a dif planet :0) Conor's pot had more flowers but Erin pulled them off and handed them to me - a not so funny ... funny moment!
Mother's Day was sweet.

Love and War study - week 5

2011-05-10T10:42:00.001-04:00

This week's lesson was sobering. We have an enemy... and it is NOT our spouse. We live in a love story set in a world at War. We have an enemy - the devil.
Other things affect our relationship such as personal brokenness, our personal style of relating. But the biggest 'issue' is the enemy. 1 Peter 5:8 'Be self controlled and alert. Your enemy the devil prowls around like a roaring lion looking for someone to devour. Resist him, standing firm in the faith, because you know that your brothers throughout the world are undergoing the same kind of sufferings'.
The authors of the book 'Love and War' said, " Pressed to choose our top three things that would most help our marriage, we would come down to this list:
1. Find life in God.
2. Deal with your brokenness.
3. Learn to shut down the spiritual attacks that come against your marriage.
Practice this and nothing else, and you will be amazed at the freedom, love, and joy that will begin to flow."

Don't make agreements with the Devil. "A neighbor confided in me one day that he believed he married the wrong woman. 'I realised it on my wedding day'. 'Really', i said. 'How?'
'It just came to me. I made a terrible mistake. I married the wrong person.'
I asked him if it ever occured to him that is wasn't an epiphany from God, not even a moment of personal clarity, but a suggestion fromt he pit of hell.
He looked at me with absolute incomprehension, like a frog looks at you. He had swallowed the bait - hook,line, and sinker. And it destroyed their marriage. They had about fifteen years of shared disappointment, during which time he had mostly checked out. After all, he "married the wrong woman." They divorced last year.
This info is powerful! Powerful if we put it into practise and powerful if we don't. So many marriages/friends/family are living a life of disappointment. Are you beliving any lies from the enemy? Ask God to show you. What are the agreements I have been making about marriage? What are the agreements that I have been making about love? What are the agreements I have been making about my spouse? John 10:10 says the devil is out to steal, kill and destroy. Serious stuff, friends.

On a brighter note though - something my hubby, James says, that I love is, "We have the power of the ressurrected Lord living inside of us and fighting for us. HE is stronger than the enemy and if we access HIS strength, wisdom and power, we will be victorious." Praise God. Come to God together and fight for your marriage. Matthew 18:19 says "I tell you the truth, whatever you bind on earth will be bound in heaven, and whatever you lose on earth will be loosed in heaven. Again, I tell you if two on earth agree about anything you ask for, it will be done for you by my Father in Heaven."

Fight for each other!
Pray together and pray to break agreements made with the enemy. Is your spouse having a bad day? how about saying 'can i pray for you right now?'. emmmmm - fyi, i don't do this. I should. By God's grace - I will. I want to fight for James. And I want him to fight for me in this way. That takes humility and an awkward moment or two.
"Fighting for one another when one is down has proven to be one of the most beautiful gifts Satsi and I have given to one another in our marriage. This can become as normal to a marriage as paying the bills and taking out the trash".

We had our friends over last night to watch the marriage session. James was at a metting and my kids were not being angels so we both missed the video. We watched it after our friends left which was awesome. James had a long day. So did I, but we fought for each other and fought for the info we knew would help us on our journey. We had a nice time together... and then conor started to cough and needed 2 hours of attention - accident? no. Spiritual warfare.

So there you have it. That's what I learned this week. I am blessed by the honesty and growth in all of the relationships in the group. A honor to be a part of it.

Strawberry Festival

2011-05-07T20:47:00.001-04:00

We went to Roanoke's Strawberry Festival today. It was fun bc we went with the Beckners. We ate yummy strawberries and the kids got their face painted. They love getting their face painted and always look so proud when it's over. Then we had mexican for lunch so to say the morning was one big feast would be the truth :0)
Later today the Hutchinson kids came over to spend the night with us. The great thing about that is Conor and Erin spent the night at their house last night. An awesome way to save money. Swap your kids for date night! Very fun and very affordable!
Speaking of deals - I thought I would post a pic of my 20 dollar trip to Kroger. I spent 20 and saved 19. I was happy with that and delighted to have cereal for the next while (10 boxes will last a while i'd say!) Once again, I like southernsavers.com :)

Christmas at great grandma Sallie's house 2010

2011-05-07T20:17:00.000-04:00

I was supposed to go home ot Ireland for Christmas and James was going to his grandma's with the kids. Ireland had so much snow that no planes could fly into the country for over a week. Of course, that was the week I had planned to go home. Big bummer... but the runner up prize was awesome too. It was such a special Christmas at great grandma Sallie's. She makes it very special. So special that santa himself shows up! I told Conor santa is not real but then when santa showed up at great grandma Sallie's - it made a believer out of Conor :) O well. it was special! Sorry for the festive throw back. I now fully believe I am caught up on here - merry Christmas in may!

Christmas at our house 2010

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Christmas 2010

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random pics from Dec 2010

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Looking back over the blog, i skipped christmas 2010. Im putting these pics up so that if i ever make a book out of this blog - christmas will not be left out :)
the kids look so small - it's amazing how much they grow in a few short months.
The pic of Conor sitting by his little tree is so funny to me. That was our tree last year in the apartment. This year it was his tree for his bedroom. He had two trees in his room and liked to bring his christmas stuff down stairs to display them for all to see. It make me chuckle to see how 'into' christmas decorating he was - just like his granny!

Flat Belly Shake

2011-05-05T14:18:00.000-04:00

While mam was here she bought a magazine that gave the recipie for a flat belly shake.... so of course, we made the shake and are waiting on the flat belly! :) The flat belly doc said if you have one of these for your breakfast it will really help on your quest so that is what I have been doing. i used to make my shakes with orange juice but its good with milk - who knew? The protein powder makes ya feel full.

1/4 cup of vinilla yogurt
1/2 cup of low fat milk
1 tsp peanut butter (i put in a bit more)
1/2 cup of frozen berries
1 tsp of wheat protein powder
Put it in the blender and there ya go.
Happy 'flat belly shake' to you all.

Easter candy from papa and grandma

2011-05-04T14:34:00.000-04:00

The kids got a package in the mail today! :) They were so excited to see what was inside and then to find candy??? They struck gold!
They called papa and grandma to say thank you :) It was sweet to see how excited they were and how happy they both were to speak to their grandparents. Papa and grandma are coming to visit next month - a trip for ice cream is already planned. Yay for packages in the mail and yay for grandparents!

Mini golf - toddler style

2011-05-04T14:16:00.000-04:00

Saturday, we wanted to do something fun so,

we headed for a game of mini golf -ha! Conor and James have played before and had fun and actually played the game but when you throw Erin into the mix - it's quite different. Erin is hilarious. She only has one speed when she is happy and that is turbo erin! We played the fastest game of mini golf because erin ran the whole thing. Then she decided to throw her golf ball in the water. Conor said next time we go he is bringing his money (piggy bank) so we can play some of the inside games. It was a quick trip but we had fun!

Love and War

2011-05-02T22:42:00.000-04:00

James and I are hosting a marriage study called 'Love and War'. We read a chapter or two from the book and watch a dvd together. We are half way through and it has been very helpful. The fun part is seeing your friends an extra night in the week!
Some of the main points are:
marriage is hard.
God is using our marriage to change me/us.
We are very different.
Only God can fill us. We are both broken vessels in need of God to fill us. Psalm 62: 1,2, 5-8 (if you/we catch that - life will be alot easier folks). There is hope for redemption through the grace of God.
Ask yourself 'what would it be like to be apart of something beautiful?'. One of the men on the video said 'when your spouse is upset, take it serious but don't take it personal'. I like that phrase. If someone is upset, it is not always your fault! Let them go to God and sort themself out. You do not always need to be the hero and you are not always the bad guy. This may not make sense to you. But I shall write it anyway :0)
Where is life found? only in GOD. Other things may bring joy... but LIFE can only come through God. Yes, there is joy in a clean kitchen or a hot dinner. But not life :) There is joy in date night, the to do list done - but not life. Life is me and Jesus - Full Stop! as we say in Ireland (period! for you americans).
Cheer each other on in your relationship with God. Pray together.
Have shared adventure. What makes your heart come alive? Where would you like to go if you could go anywhere in the world? Do fun stuff with your spouse. You know? Fun? the things you did before kids? hmmmmm
I am looking forward to all of the adventure James and I have planned for this summer. We are very blessed to know God and are blessed to be following His Way. His way brings life, freedom and a whole lot of fun! We are not having a new baby (those are fun but not for me this year, thanks!) We are not moving states, jobs, house. We are settled and ready to enjoy the summer that God has given us. Yay for marriage and a big yay for God's way in marriage that leads to happiness and contentment. If you are looking for a good book on marriage - Love and War is good. So is the book 'Love and Respect'. Well, four weeks down and four to go. I'll let you know how the rest goes.

last thoughts on mam's trip - promise

2011-04-29T23:43:00.001-04:00

I had a lovely time with mam. We fit a year of fun in a few days. Shopping,Making healthy meals together and shakes, lots of tea drinking, lots of mam rocking in the rocking chair. Some goodwill shopping where mam comes out with bags of 'treasures'. I said will the girls (my sisters) kill me when they see what you bring home? We exercised a few time with jillian from bigest loser and the p90x abb workout. That was funny let me tell ya! Our trip to dollywood where the first group we hear were irish?!? hello? we came to dollywood not for irish music. We did get to hear a few good groups and one of mam's favorites was sights and sounds from dolly (a dvd that she was also able to buy). We heard dolly's uncle sing. The one who brought her to nashville. Kinda cool. We heard a southern christian group who were very good. I went to dollywood with my friend laura's family 6 years ago and i said then that id love to bring mam there some day. I am so glad we got to go. We ate at TGI Fridays and we had a steak dinner during our outlet shopping day. Mam and Tina treat themselves to that every now and again so i was glad to jump on the band wagon. Mam and Erin went for a walk one of the nights and that really helped erin bond with granny. Erin was being very cold before that which was not very nice. But how do you tell a two year old - 'hey kid? This is your granny. Be sweet to her'?! It will come in time. Mam got to see how funny erin is. Erin has very funny ways that you have to see to believe. honestly. Conor was very sad to say goodbye to granny. He said 'this is a very sad day', to be exact'. ;)

O well. It's over... until next time!
I have a great life here. I really do. But I do miss my family... I told mam that God has been telling me that He gives us new family. The body of Christ is our family. I need to recieve them and quiet honestly - they need to recieve me. God wants us to reach out to those around us and help them to be like the Master. i told mam of people in her church in Ireland that need a mother and I think she would make a great one for them. I'm not there but those poor lonely girls are and they need a loving mother in their life. We do need people with skin on. I can chat to people on the phone but it is very dif when they are sitting in my kitchen. Think about it - who can you reach out to? Who needs to be a part of your family? Ask God to give you His eyes for life's situations. Conor told us that there are 5 people in our family. Mammy, Daddy, Conor, Erin and Hope. Let people in for however long/short God leads.
I have been a part of many families over the years. Thank you to all of the missionairies who helped mold and shape me to follow Christ. Thank you to all the people in my irish church who helped me. May I turn around and do likewise. Life is fun when it's not about me - But about Him. My Saviour. My King. My Friend. My Father - He is my true family.

Easter Sunday with Granny and Hope

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We came back from Gatlinburg late Saturday night. We were glad that we set the table and had the dinner basically prepared before our trip. Even though we had our easter egg hunt, I bought The kids choc bunnies for easter. Not because i thought they needed them but because Conor told me everybody gets a choc bunny on easter! Thank you Mickey Mouse. It is scary the things they learn from the media (i'm serious!). So after our easter dinner we hid the eggs (again) and had another hunt. why not? same eggs, same candy. Then they got their choc bunny.
Our church service was very good and moving. Pastor Robert said let us remember easter all year long and the power of Christ's resurrection. Will we be diff this time next year? Will this easter change us and move us closer to the Lord? it should. Sunday night we watched the Passion. We did not make time for it during the week so it was appropriate for us to watch it and medititate on what God gave us in Jesus. 'Jesus payed it ALL'.
I had a lovley Easter. I hope you did too!

mam's 'happy birthday' cabin in gatlinburg

2011-04-29T19:12:00.000-04:00

Me and mam were suppose to go to gatlinburg to have a break (from the kids ahem) and enjoy a birthday trip for mam. Well - james and the kids came so they could have fun at dollywood. We were glad they came because me and mam would have been afraid all alone in the cabin in the woods. It was beautiful and the lady put some happy birthday banners up in the cabin which was so sweet. We will go back and stay for longer next time!

off to Gatlinburg

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After Conor's gandparent's program at school we headed off to Gatlinburg to enjoy some music and enjoy the cabin and shop :0)

easter festivities with granny

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Granny bought this cute easter tree but when she put it in my window she thought it should live there. ok with me :) We decorated our eggs and had our egg hunt on thursday because we knew by sunday afternoon we would all be too tired and in need of naps! After the hunt and eating of some candy, James read the real meaning of easter - Christ Arose!! Praise the Lord! We sang the hymn 'He Arose!' It was a lovely ending to our night with the kids and it was beautiful to hear Conor tell me what easter was really about. It was nice for mam to be there and see our family love her God.

egg hunt

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Coloring easter eggs with granny

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Coloring easter eggs with granny

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We thought we would join the americans and color some eggs. First time for the kiddos and let me just say erin was enjoying herself and annoying the rest of us... Because she was dipping her egg into all of the colors and we were afraid she was going to mess all the colors up. She didnt. we had fun - conor was awesome and loved it! Erin was awesome in her 2 yr old ways and she loved it :)

what we did with mam part 1 :0)

2011-04-29T17:50:00.000-04:00

So I woke up Monday morning sooo very excited that my mam was coming to visit me that night! :) She ended up having ticket trouble and was not able to come until the next day (she got to stay a night in GA with my brother Kevin so she was fine - it was us that missed her!). We are very thankful to have mam visiting with us. So I picked her up on Tue and we headed straight to the stores - Kohls.... i love kohls :)bought a new dress for hawaii - yep, off to hawaii for my 30th birthday in june. We came home and enjoyed the night chatting and watching the kids interact with granny. Granny brought lots of goodies and she loved our house. This was her first time in the house and she loved the guest room. Wed we went to a few goodwill stores with the kids (which is never fun). that night we went to marshalls with just erin and it went alot better :) We enjoyed using the bbQ last week and eating dinner on the deck. Fun times! Oh - Conor woke up with a fever thursday morning... so he missed school and his gandparents day program was the next day?!! If you remember - he missed his christmas program bc he was sick. We prayed that he would be better for fri! Friday, we got up bright and early to get ready for the grandparents program as well as Gatlinburg :) :) Conor was so cute for his program (he was better). He went and sat by Elijah (his good buddy) He looked so nervous. Then up on stage he looked like he was going to cry. I felt bad for him but I also thought it was funny! Is that bad?! Mr Ragan and Mrs Jones are awesome so the child was in good hands. Conor was looking for us and couldnt find us. I dont know how he couldnt find us with loud erin shouting "CONOR....

CONOR????"

Very fun and so sweet that mam was there to see Conor sing on stage for the very first time and meet his first school teacher and see his classroom. You get the idea - we were very proud!

i know

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I do know that I can't (am too lazy for spell check) spell. I also know that I use run on sentences. I think the kids will enjoy looking back on our memories.
They will know me and one day laugh at the things I choose to recall. I hope you all are writing down memories and things the Lord is teaching you for your family. I'm reading through the OT at the moment. I'm in Joshua. Hoping to focus on Easter this week with the kids and myself. It will be busy with mam here but I don't want to miss this special time and let the real meaning of Easter get away from me. The devil and flesh is sneaky like that. Check out 'A Holy Experience' blog for meaningful ways to celebrate Easter with your family. I am excited about this coming Friday. Conor's class is having grandparent's day and granny will be here for it :) I am also excited bc they are singing Easter Hymns. My 3 year old sharing the good news through song. Can this life get any better? I think not.

The kids are outside with their wellie boots on. Erin is sitting in the mud :/ I am so glad Conor does not like the same activity. I dont think I could handle it! Ok - I'm off now. Happy saturday!

It's been a good week

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Today is Saturday and I can not believe it! Where did the week go?
Well, we went to church Sunday night and enjoyed the concert as a family. The songs were beautiful and ministered to me! We thought the kids were all better but we did not want to worry the nursery workers so we kept the two and three year olds with us :) Yes, we did bribe them and tell them if they sat still we would bring them to Brusters (ice cream)afterward. We were pleasently suprised and very proud when an older man told us our kids were the most well behaved kids he had ever seen - ha! Ice cream works. We headed for Ice cream where we heard the wonderful news that Hope had asked God to save her and she became a child of HIS. No longer an orphan but a child of the KING of KINGS. Praise the Lord! We are blessed at the moment to be helping hope along with the Warren King family. Hope is blessed with many people who love her and want to help her. We are thrilled to watch everything God is doing for her and we know that HE has great things in store for her and for all of us (you included!) as we trust and obey.

So, of course, Erin puked again sunday night and we were very glad that we did not put her in the nursery. The doc said that this virus would come and go. The great news is that it has gone for good now! I mean it this time :) Conor is forever washing his hands now bc he does not want to get sick again (a good thing of course!) I saw him eating a flower the other day and I was able to say "Do you want to get sick again?" He said "no no no no!" I said "well, let's not eat the flowers ok?" That was the end of eating flowers! He knows how sick he was and he does not want that to happen again.

Monday brought a wonderful suprise. My big brother Kevin stopped by :) He was on his way from up north heading home to GA and he was able to stop in and see my new house and my family. What a blessing and a beautiful suprise.

We had our first 'marriage' small group Monday night. I just finished the Captivating study with some girl friends from church. Afterward we decided to do the Love and War couple's study by the same authors. It was nice to be back with my girl friends. It was really awesome to have our hubbies with us and we were joined by some new friends. The night was refreshing and James and I feel blessed to be a part of these marriages - we get to pray along side them for growth.

Conor got to go back to school this week. It was neat for him to hear of so many that were praying for him and he felt very special that his teacher and friends missed him. He has been taking swimming lessons and he hates how cold the water is but he is listening to the instructor and by the next set of lessons he will be able to swim all by himself. Crazy! It is amazing to watch your baby grow - a mazing!

This week Conor said to me "mom, i love the smile you had on your wedding day." aweee :0) There is a pic of James and I in the living room and he noticed how happy I was with daddy. We were at the park and he was telling the other kids that I was his mom and he was so proud! James said he did the same thing to him at the children's museum this week. We are cool at the moment. I am sure the day will quickly come when we 'lose our coolness'. But until then - I'm a rock star! It's a blessing to raise these kids. Conor was talking about his future brother. God knows who he will be but we do not. Lord, please protect our kids from danger and please help all of our kids know how much you love them. We hope to foster/adopt in the years to come. Conor knows that and he looks forward to having more family :)

Erin likes to turn on the hose outside and make a mud pit. I really should snap a pic but I am too busy giving her a lecture.
I saw Conor run from inside the house to the back yard and he looked like he needed to use to loo. "Emmmmm Conor??" We don't go to the bathroom behind the tree when we can easily use the 3 bathrooms mere steps away! I couldnt believe he ran from inside to outside to pee! What kind of kids am I raising?!?!

We had some other happenings but I have told you enough about the week. We have had a few financial mishaps (as ya do). Trip to the ER, 150 dollar medicine, broken lawn mower, ants that will not go away, a few more things... which led me to think about couponing once again. I'm going to give it a try this week and I will write about my findings in the weeks to come.

We are all very very excited here today because my mother is coming to visit from across the sea - Ireland. Granny is coming monday night and we cannot wait. I am already sad that she will only be here a week. I know. I need to happy she is here and not sad she is leaving. I'm working on it. Really.

That was our week. Busy, fun, mostly puke free, inspirational... Trust in the Lord with ALL of your heart. Lean not on your own understanding. In ALL of your ways acknowledge HIM. And HE will direct your paths. Prov 3:5,6

Erin's 2 yr pic

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We went to get Erin's picture taken last saturday. We went in the morning time and she cried and would not let us take her picture. Very strange behavior for Erin. We came home, had a nap and tried again that evening. We were happy with the picture:0)
Then we headed to chick fil a and play area in the mall to celebrate! God had a plan for us at Chick fil a. We met a young lady that God wanted us to encourage and we are enjoying watching this miracle unfold before our eyes. God is amazing and I love living with/for Him.
Well - when we got home that night, Erin started to throw up and ended up being sick all week and sharing her sickness with Conor and myself. It has been a sick sick week (on many levels!) But I am glad to announce - no one puked last night!
We also got to see our good friends from Michigan this week. They came to visit us as a part of their spring break trip. We had fun playing cards. Spoons was awesome! Taylor ended the game in such a perfect way - couldnt of been any funnier! Its good to laugh after such a pukey week! Thanks for coming Kananby fam!

K3 with Mrs Jones and lovin' it!

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So in the previous post I went on an on about how much I love Mrs Jones and what a wonderful teacher she is and then I lost the post somehow... I said how sad I am that the year is coming to an end and cant blieve Im acting so emotional about pre k?!?! I used to say to james' mom "don't be sad its over, be happy it happened." (from dr suess) its alot harder to do when you're the mom... never the less, I am very thankful for this wonderful year. Our family is blessed to have such wonderful people help us out on this journey of parenting. Thanks RVCS and Mrs Jones!

Mrs Jones gave this mail box to Conor for learning his address. She had one for each of her students and inside the mailbox she put candy. Everytime they said their address she would give them a piece from the mail box. We keep his on top of the fridge and use it to review. Conor loves getting a treat from the mail box.

K3 with Mrs Jones and lovin' it!

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My Favorite Children's BIble

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My friend Dayna told me about this Bible and I love love love it! It is called "The Children's Illustarted Bible". Stories retold by Selina Hastings. Illustarted by Eric Thomas.

I have been reading (in my big girl Bible) in the Old Testament this year and am currently in Deut. Im not goona lie, I have enjoyed reading the kids Bible with them to fill in some of the blanks. I'm kinda slow! The children's Bible shares alot of detail and puts more detail and historical info on the side of the pages for the older kids.
If your family is in need of a new Bible, this one is my fav. I don't know about your house but our family devotion time tries to turn into a time of distraction and annoyance. We try to make our times in the Bible fun and stress free. I think the enemy shows up to get on our nerves. Don't give up and pray to ask God to give you grace and patience. That's my plan. They are small so dont keep them sitting for too long. Last night the kids were acting up during our time int the Bible and James and I laughed and said "so this is what is was like for our parents?!." :0) Keep going, friends. It may not be easy but it is def worth it.

Growth

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Conor and I were sitting at the kitchen table on thursday and he says to me - "mom, tomorrow is a tricky day". He siad Mrs Jones (his k3 teacher) told him all about April Fools Day and that it was a day for playing tricks on people. I found this conversation humorous because the child is 3! :)
He said his trick was going to be when I told him to pick up his toys he was going to say NO! and that was going to be his trick :) I did go on to explain that April Fools is not a day to disobey but to make people laugh. He really wanted to play a trick on Mrs Jones but he didnt have school on fri - I think we will save one for class on Tuesday :) We did think about going over to her house and putting shaving cream on her car and tying balloons to it but Conor only wanted to do it if we could make the car float away and that would be a funny trick. What a little sinner!
He had show and tell on thursday and brought his two buzz lightyear toys. He wore his Buzz shirt and was very excited to share with his friends. This has been the first month that he has really been happy to stand up and share about his toy. The first time he refused, the second time he stood up and said nothing. He forgot to bring his toy for a good few months and on thursday he was ready for the next step. We didnt think it would be a big deal for him to stand up and talk because we think he enjoys attention. We were suprised, but once again - kids suprise ya! It is such a beautiful thing to watch your child grow in all areas. Emotionally, spiritually and physically. At the beginning of the year he said he was afraid to participate in show and tell. Here we are nearing the end of K3 and he is no longer afraid. He has learned it is a safe place. Beautiful! He told me Mrs Jones thanked all those helpers who talked about their toy. When we were sitting on the couch thursday night he said "Mommy, what will I bring to the next show and tell?" We talked about a few options and came up with a good plan. He said "Mom, lets dream about that every night ok?" I said ok (even though when my head hits the pillow im out and dont remember a thing til i hear a kid in the morning). I was happy for him though becasue he is happy and excited about sharing next month. He has grown! Im proud of him and love watching him grow.

Conor - one of my three biggest blessings.

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Conor used to wake up each day saying "where are we going today and is anyone coming over?". For the last few weeks he has been asking "Are we staying home today?" and if I say "yes" - he says a very happy "yes!". He says he has a lot of fun at home and loves to play with his toys. He loves Toy Story and acts the movie out most of the day. He used to do that to the movie Cars. It's kinda nice that he likes to be home with me at the moment. When James is home with us, Conor prays ' thanks God that we can all be together'. It is humbling. It is humbling becasue God has given me a beautiful family and the relationship reminds and teaches me so much about Him and how He loves me. I dont deserve my beautiful gift of a family. But God has given them to me and I rejoice. I rejoice in God's goodness and grace and mercy. I can dance thinking of my joyful blessing. God, may i dance in the goodness of trials too. My biggest trial is prob being so far away from Ireland and the people/family there. It is a trail but it is small in reality. I know that. I have been through worse and I am sure you have been too. But, what I want to do is dance through those trials. Because it's all about God. it's all about knowing Him and growing in Him. I am not on a quest to have alot of stuff down here or to "arrive" down here. I'm getting to know the God of the Universe and be who and do whatever He has for me.
Conor, I pray that we will always be close to you and I pray that this house will always be a refuge to you. I pray your heart will be safe here. I love you,son.

Erin - in all of her glory :)

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Erin, It is time to tarnish your sweet little name... Well, you were perfect for your first year of life but your second year?? :) I have a few stories! First of all, you are a light sleeper and dont take the longest naps ever AND you wake up bright and early in the mornings- very happy to start your day. Have I told you I am not a morning person?!
You like to pull everything out of your dresser draws in your room - I tell you (in more ways than one!) each time to please leave your clothes and toys alone while 'sleeping'.
Another thing you like to do is get into the diaper creams and vaseline and plaster it all over your body,legs,arms,face and your dollies and your wall. I put the creams in my bathroom but somehow you get to it if I leave you alone for any time at all. Have you ever heard of playing quietly in your room or reading a few books??
I came downstairs the other morning and found you in the lving room watching Dora with the whip cream tub (out and open from the fridge!) along with some turkey lunch meat. Hello, child who just turned 2 in feb? please stay out of the fridge and stop eating me out of house and home.
Another thing you like to do is walk around naked with your princess high heals on - that just makes me laugh! I do insist you wear a diaper but once you soil it (sorry folks!) ... you like to take it off! I have to keep a close eye on you to see where the diaper ended up and that no "remenants" are anywhere. Sorry but this stuff needs to be documented because Erin has been way too good (up until recently!)
You used to really like nursery but for the last few months you have not been a huge fan. You cry each time we drop you off. That is sad :( Good news though- this past sunday your teachers said you were 'helping' them by pushing the other babies in their swings. You love babies! You love hugs and kisses.
You love to color, play plydough, paint, sing and dance. You love the trampoline. You love outside more than Conor does. You could stay out exploring all day in any type of weather. You dont seem to love reading (hope thats not a bad sign for your sholastic future - ha)
You love people and are very friendly. When you are shy, you act so sweet (unlike someone else we know - conor ahem!)
The other day I was in your room and you told me (in your own language) to get into bed. So, I climbed into your toddler bed :) You covered me up, kissed my head, talked sweetly and shut the blinds and blew me a kiss from the door. You also took the toys out of the room which was hilarious to me. You did everything I do to you. After you shut the door, I climbed out of bed and knocked loudly on the door like you do! You came back in and pointed your finger at me and told me to get back into the bed!! You kissed me again and left. Ahhh Erin, I smiled from the bottom of my heart because you were being such a sweet mom. Am I always sweet? No. But you reminded me that you are watching me and learning how to be a mommy and a lady. I will act like God so when you act like me - you are acting like our Master and King of Kings - God.
I love you sweet girl.

what a beautiful princess you are, erin!

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Erin Grace Feb 6 @ 4:53 pm - 7lbs 15 oz - 19 in long (birth,1st bday,2 bday)

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Youre celebrating without me?

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March is a sad month for me... Maybe because Feb is such a HAPPY month! We had Erin's 2nd birthday on the 6th. I love birthdays and celebrating with the people I love. Then we had James' birthday on the 11th. Then we had valentines day, Then we had our engagement anniversary which got me a weekend alone with my hubby at a marraige conference. See what I mean? alot of happiness.
For erin's birthday we had a party with skylar and addie. Addie is a li

ttle one yr old girl we mind (erin's best friend) and skylar is conor's age but erin really likes her too :)I am always blessed when parents bring their little ones over to my house to celebrate with us. When you live far away from blood family, God blesses with other 'family'. People who get to know your kids and love them like they were apart of their blood family. That means alot to this mom. Every mom wants people to think their kid is a rock star and notice their accomplishments and special days.
We also went to Ohio and met up with friends from our last church. Titus and Makayla Devlin (and their parents). We had fun at the creation museum and the aquairium. Its always nice to meet up with friends and catch up in person. I must add that i do hate travelling and def complain more than the kids while on road trips. I think part of the problem is the octopus arms we moms have to have. To switch dvds, hand out snacks, wipe noses, hand out drinks, wipe up messes, dry tears, maybe create a few tears, give the right toy to the right kid etc, ALL while strapped into your seat belt! Yeah - Im not a fan. Feb was fun for me but i know my sisters and irish family were sad to not be with erin on her birthday.
March brings my sister Tracey's birthday. Mam, Tina and Tracey had a nice little celebration together which i was sad to miss. St Patricks day brought another fun day for the girls that i missed and mam's 60th brithday is this thur. I would love to live around the corner from my sisters and my mam. It would be lovely to pop in for tea and a chat. Maybe an arguement now and then. Im sure we would have those with four very strong personalities. It would be lovely to have them around my kids and influence them. I havent lived in the same country as them since 1999. That date doesnt seem like long to me until i say 12 years. Wow - 12 years? I miss them. I miss them alot in March.
The good news is, mam is planning to visit me soon. She saw erin when she was a new born, her second time was last year when erin was one and this will be her third encounter with my daughter. Her grand daughter.
I know I am blessed to love them enough to miss them so much. I know I am blessed to be married to James and be the mom of these two precious kids. But I guess everyone has something. God gives us all something to make us ache for HIM. He can meet my every need. HE can provide other relationships close with 'skin' on. He has done that for me manys a time. On st Paricks day we went to the park to enjoy the sunshine. We bumped in to friends of ours from the church and they invited us back to their house for dinner. It was fun! It was God thinking of me and blessing me with friends and 'family'. God provides. I know this is not my home. I know that Ireland is not my home. HEAVEN is. That's what Im living for. That's my focus. If it's not - it needs to be. God, use me where you put me and Im looking forward to the day I will be home forever.

Conversations with Conor

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"Mom, I want to go to a college where the mommy and daddys come too".

"Daddy, when I'm bigger I'm gonna get a wife and she's gonna have a baby." "Ok, what are you going to name your baby?". "Can I call my baby Erin?" "Yes"... "Daddy, is my wife gonna have another baby?" "maybe" "Ok - Im gonna name my second baby Sammy".

What I think is hilarious is that when he is old enough to get married he is not going to let us decide these huge issues. It makes me to smile to think that when he is older I can look back on this converstaion. Maybe Ill show him this and let him know that he once thought we were the rulers of the world.
I think it is awesome though that my job is to train him to be independent and not to need me but to need God and the wife that I hope will be in his future. - And of course little erin and sammy - ha ha :0)

Conor told me he would like to marry Mrs Jones (his k3 teacher) "but she is already married to Mr Tim" he said sadly! :)

"I know you're married to mommy. That means you will never be alone." great take on marriage, son. love you!

Happy 1st Birthday to our princess, Erin (feb 2010)

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What a joy you are, Erin! You are a perfect little angel and we think youre the cutest little princess ever! You enjoy sharing a room with Conor. You love waking up (way too early) and seeing him! You go with the flo and are a happy go lucky kind of girl. thanks :0)You are my darling treasure. For your first birthday we went to the greenridge gym were you and Conor love to swim. We ate at Applebees for your birthday dinner and came home for cake and presents. We skyped your grandparents and aunties so they could see you on your special day. Everyone loves you and your nursery workers tell us such cute stories about you. You like to sing for them and you love the little tyke swings in there. You love to eat, play, have fun, read, sing. What can i say? youre perfect. I love you baby girl. Happy 1st Birthday!

Puggles

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Conor and I loved going to Puggles together. Puggles is the 2 year old program for AWANA. I loved helping him learn to interact with his new friends and it was so much fun to see him learn and sing with his little 2 year old pals. Tomorrow night is Erin's first night in Puggles :) Our first winter here was cold and we had a lot of snow. Very unusual for Roanoke. Conor enjoyed playing in the snow though and James didnt have to shovel the driveway bc we didnt have one :) fun had by all!

early days in roanoke,va (life in the missions' apartment)

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Christmas 2009

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Erin's second year of life in a nutshell (i def make a short story LONG)

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It's Erin's birthday next sunday!!! I love birthdays :) It is your special day of the year so by all means - take advantage of it!
What has Erin been up to since my last post?

Well, for her first christmas we travelled to Acworth, GA to be with my brother Kevin's family. They enjoyed you so much erin! You were 10 months old and loved being cuddled :) You loved their dogs and would crawl around looking for them. On Christmas Eve we drove to Greenville, SC to be with my college friend Dayna and family. Dayna and I are like sisters and we have had many fights to prove it! We are lifers and love sharing our families with each other. We drove there hoping to go to their chirstmas eve service but we missed it due to traffic and conor's potty accident (note to self - put the two yr old in a pull up for road trips). Dayna had just had her third baby and her hubby Ben recently (like 2 wks prior) had surgery. Our christmas morning was sweet because the five children sat and heard the real meaning of Christmas and knew it was Jesus' birthday. I love that and think we families need to forget the tinsel and lights and focus on Christ ALOT more that we do during this special time of year! James and I put a few service projects in the kids christmas stockings for us to complete as a family during the folloing year which was very special to us. We took the kids to a near by nursing home and sang christmas carols. It was sweet. I will say trying to bring christmas cheer with 5 kids four years old and under was stressful bc of the meltdowns (conor, ahem!) But we atleast made them happy - to enjoy a peaceful christmas after our visit and make them chuckle at our efforts... it was fun and meaningful though and something i would like us to do more of. Keep in mind that we had just moved to our Virginia apartment less than two weeks before this road trip and that is what I blame for Conor's many melt downs and the fact that the poor child was only 2 years old. Our stress free Christmas had a little too much stress in it after all. Conor puked all over their couch AND wrote all over their playroom/guestroom wall (it took me four whole mr magic erasers to get rid of his handy work!) After destroying their beautiful home we headed back to GA to torment my brother's family for the new year celebration. Erin - what were you doing during all of this? being sweet, of course, just like your dear old daddy. You were the sweetest little angel. Conor? not so much!!! My childhood Pastor laughed at me when he met Conor and said "you can tell who that child's mother is" - ha ha... thats all i have to say :0) Conor got fire trucks for Christmas and Mickey mouse. Erin, you got Minnie Mouse. You still carry her around a year later so she was a winner :) So Christmas was a little crazy. I said this year would be different. It had different people in it and different states but still ended up crazy. Next year??? we are staying at home where the sign on my door says no stress allowed :)I will say, kids, that I am blessed to have you and love every moment we have together. Your mother is a bit of a nut job BUT I love you two dearly and your darling daddy. May God bless us with many happy memories together and may we enjoy many stress free christmas' to come. I love you Erin. Happy first Christmas with us (a year late!) Conor - you had a blast Christmas 2010 but I shall write about that in another post. Love you son!

It has been too long since my last update! Michiana to Virginia one last time.

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Good Bye Granger House

My two brave babies

Erin Grace is turning two years old in less than two weeks and i feel the need to share on here what she and conor have been up to over the last year and two months! wow - sorry guys (conor and erin) for getting so behind! why did i stop updating? well, i blame facebook bc i can put my pics on there. And, to be honest, it's been a rough/busy year!

We happily moved from michiana (michigan, indiana) to work in a bigger church with a lot more staff and more wisdom/oppertunities to glean from. This church has a christian school so now our children get to attend there and i dont have to homeschool (big sigh of relief for everyone involved!) So we are happy to live in Roanoke, Va.

I have moved many times so why would this move be different? Well, i shared the birth of my children with my cbc friends and my first few years of marriage with them. They grew to be my family. I came to love (most of) them very much!

There was Jeannie and her family who loved my kids and would do anything for us and we would do anything for them! She watched my kids so much for me so i wouldnt go insane! She watched Conor for me while we were in the hospital having erin. She brought Conor to visit us which is a very special memory. She was the first one to share in our joy to see erin. I didnt want many visitors bc to me im in the hospital for a reason - leave me alone. But seeing Jeannie was like seeing family and a memory i cherish. My mam planned on being there for both births but each time the kiddos came early and mam missed it (i went into labor with conor while mam was flying from ireland. by the time she landed, conor was born!). So its a little lonely to birth a baby and have no family to share in the joy. Jeannie was my "family" and def cheered me up. One time conor was running in a restaurant. He fell and broke his front tooth. It was scary to see blood coming from his mouth. What did we do? we drove to Jeannie's to be reassured that everything was ok. Jeannie - an angel in disguise. That's how i see her.

I have sweet memories for so many from cbc. My mommy freinds (girls i was preg with and our kids shared their first memories together). Mary and Josh who we shared the youth group with. If we had any prob in the house or with our car - Josh fixed it and we would celebrate with pizza or chinese! Mary - this woman can do everything and can do it all well! A great friend with a heart larger than life. Mary H. who would come to my house and pray with me each monday. That woman kept me from depression and kept me seeing God's big picture manys a time. Ben and Bailey's family who thought our kids were rock stars and they made conor a special blanket before we left. That fire fighter blanket is on his bed and makes me think of that sweet family each night. There was so many old people! That might sound rude but wow - so much wisdom in one room!! I honestly had not been around older christians before. I came from Ireland where I did not know one Christian older than 50 so to have their influence was very special to me. So when I think of CBC, i think of the many blessings and the amazing learning oppertunity. I miss my friends. Conor misses his freinds too. He talks about Titus all the time. Maybe bc we lived with him for a week before we moved and maybe he thought that was his new life? I dont know but I do feel bad for him. A few times I have heard him mention other kids to be his best friend. Skylar, Trevor, Elijah and for that I am grateful.

I am making new friends and for that I am very thankful too. I had a couple that were like family but God has moved them away already (how rude!) jk :0) Bonding takes time and people that feel like family are a rare gem but Im open and know God has always provided and is in the midst of providing. I remember my first year at CBC. I walked into the church office where Hannah, Mary and Joy were talking. I walked out feeling so alone. My brother told me to give it a year and I would feel at home there. That was good advice and I have kept that in mind in this new State too. Sometimes I think it is very odd to live in a place where James and I have no blood family. But most times I feel honored and blessed to know my need for God. I need God for so many things because I cant ask family to jump in. James and I need each other so much more too. We make concious efforts for family fun time. We have many blessings here and i will tell you kids about it in the posts to come. Our new house, Conor's school, Conor and Erin's awesome ss teachers and wed night workers who love them very much. We are blessed.

Well, now that I have shared those precious memories (to me!), I am ready to go on. Ready to tell you what the kids have been up to over the last year! You prob already know but I want to document it so Conor and Erin can look back on their early days. Erin, you have been such a cute, fun addition to our family. We love you and are so proud of you and your big brother. You dont seem to miss CBC - you didnt skip a beat. You have Conor and thats all you need ;) I hope you two keep up your beautiful friendship. I tell Conor that daddy would take care of his little sister, ruthie, and make her happy too (so grandma and james tell me - i obviousally wasnt there). He loves being like daddy and loves his little sister.

Well, a year and two months later, here's to new beginnings!! I love my little family and I love the God who gave me you!

Erin Grace - 10 months old

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Here are a few of Erin Grace. She is swinging at our school playground in VA.You can see our apartment behind her. There are two white buildings. One is the church office and the other is the apartment. Erin is walking already! She walks a good few steps and then pounces on you. We thought we would get a quite layed back child after crazy Conor but she seems to be pretty crazy. She has a fun loving personality and we love her so much. Since this pic she has two more bottom teeth.

Ginger Bread House and a whole lot of FaMiLy FuN!

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I asked God to give me patience to enjoy this stage of living in a smaller space. I think He has answered me and i think He has given me a joy to be here and have fun with the family. There is not that much space to clean and we do not have laundry here so I have a lot of time to play and read to the kiddos. not to mention make ginger bread houses. We want Christmas to be a fun, stress free time of the year at our house and so far that is how we feel. So if you are feeling stressed - take a deep breath and think of what is important to you....

The Move

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This is our modest (to say the least) Christmas tree. Conor thinks it is awesome so that makes me think it is awesome but I know what it may look like to the naked eye :) The kids travelled well from IN to VA - Conor likes to sleep with his blanket over his head. Our friends Meagan and David :) Conor loves to play along with David on his guitar.

Children's Museum in Indy

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We thought it was funny that Erin Grace was chewing on her shoe in the midst of so many cool toys! And of course Conor found the lawn mower :)

Children's Museum in Indy

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Children's Museum in Indy

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The kids and I stayed with Laura for a few days over thanksgiving and she brought us to the children's museum. It was alot of fun and we will go again! Lots to do in there!

Thanksgiving with the Solareks and Millers

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I love watching the kids play and interact with their family.